Kids...With Kids?

(4/29/15 Weebly)







So... I was on Facebook and saw (for the 8th time, seriously...) a post saying "Like if your over 18 and don't have a kid yet." And got me thinking....."WOW"



Seriously, do you know theres a huge boost in single parents and kids with kids? I mean their having them in Middle school!


Babies having Babies indeed...


But is that REALLY that strange?


Anyone 80+ can probably remember girls (like 15, maybe younger...) marrying old men... And that being normal! There was a time when not being married by 18 meant you were F*CKED! It wasn't THAT long ago either!


But we spent 50 years or so not doing that stuff and now its weird to be on it again? Like bell bottoms and the flappers style clothing, fads come back! Apparently this is a fad.



So... Does this mean that women will be expected to stay in the house and raise kids again while men work again? Will Blacks and Whites not be allowed to mix? (Legally that is. To be fair any separation in modern times is your choice no one is keeping you apart. The White Man aint keepin you down. The Black Man aint going to shoot you... Hate the person, not the race. If you judge a person by race at all then you have made a mistake. But I can attack this beehive another time...)


To the point. Whats the real appeal in sex? Is it worth the risk? Honestly... If your under the age of 16 and having sex then something is WRONG. Its not "The Cool Thing" and its not rebelling. Its selling yourself short, opening the door to Hell (figuratively and literal).

Sex in general opens you to STDs, children, emotional and physical damage.


You've heard the STD and baby talk. At school or even parents. Do you really need a lecture on that? Nope. But heres the facts:

Herpes. AIDs. You know what these are. You know ALOT more too. Now... These can be controlled but not cured. The meds aren't cheap. Your wasting money on the meds monthly, your losing years of your life, your ruining other peoples lives, and your a stigma. And most people under 18 probably aren't tested and if they are aren't going to tell you. In fact, most over 21 probably aren't tested and wouldn't tell you!

Think of Family guy! Brain did not tell Stewie or Chris he had Herpes. And they ended up with Herpes after becoming Blood Brothers.

STDs are painful. Ugly (case in point, that Family Guy episode. Icky sores). Not Worth it.

Babies. Cute maybe to some.. But their only fun in small doses. Did you have a baby sister or brother? Or visit with a baby in the house? A night or two of the nightly screaming might be annoying but aren't you always saying "Just one more night." or "Thank GOODNESS were going home and I can sleep." Then you have a answer.


Babies cry and wont stop. It will be like that for months. No going out, no having a life, probably no college. And no, you cant dump it on your parents and boys you cant dump it on the girl. If you do, you'll pay. Usually you pay in heavy wage cuts. Oh, your getting 20 bucks a hour?! Well she can get 50-70% of that pay from every check in Child support. Same to girls who dump it on men.

Also... CHILDREN ARE NOT WEAPONS OR A WAY TO SAVE A RELATIONSHIP!!

Seriously... You cant fix a marriage by having a baby. You just gave a common ground that will fade and you will then ruin the childs life when you end up breaking it up.

Child support can hurt, yes. But it isn't a way to get back at your Ex. Its not a way to get money without working either. Its meant to care for the child. If your getting a thousand a month, good for you. Take it and use it for the child! They should be eating balanced meals 3 times a day. Have clothes that aren't holey (not exactly expensive but not full of holes). Any you got left should be used FOR the child. Maybe put towards their college education. It is NOT for you. Don't take it and buy beer or drugs or a new car or jewelry. Don't even try to say you got that brand new sports car for the kids safety when it doesn't even have a back seat...Or room for a car seat.


Next The damage. It IS damaging. Do you know how many people turn around 10 years or even just one year lately and say "I wish I had waited..." Maybe not till married but atleast for someone better. Im sure most do wish it. And not just because they ended up with a kid or STD, just because it wasn't special or the person they were with wasn't good to them.



Well... Im ranting abit to much, but you got the idea, right? I hope you young impressionable ones will take some of what I've said and understand its important. The worst will happen to everyone at some point. Everyone has to face the "Worse Possibly Outcome" at some point. Its not always going to be "It'll never happen to me."


So. If nothing else. Adults. Kids, Teens... Keep it safe. If you must, use a condom. Keep it safe. Don't let anyone pressure or force you into it. Don't be scared to ask questions!


Till next time darlins. Keep it safe, and God Bless you! :)




A Side Note: This is all assuming the sex is mutually wanted. Not Forced or Rape. My thoughts on any form of force or rape are not reflected above.



Wolf